Dating Situation?

CrazyKell · 11-26-2008, 01:52 PM

You hang out with someone and are very casually dating. You have not slept with them.You are not exclusive but hope to be one day.

"Something" happens with someone else.

Are you obligated to tell the other person?

Would YOU tell this other person?

Rider · 11-26-2008, 02:08 PM

Since you are not exclusive with the person you are not obligated to tell them. If you hope to be exclusive with them someday, you need to be honest with them and tell them you want to be.

buzzcutt2 · 11-26-2008, 02:09 PM

I would not tell them anything...but that's just me.

Particle Man · 11-26-2008, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by buzzcutt2

I would not tell them anything...but that's just me.

same here. You have no reason to... by telling them, you're basically acknowledging that there is more than "friendship" there...

papapoi · 11-26-2008, 02:18 PM

none of there business they dont own you.

ceo012384 · 11-26-2008, 02:23 PM

No and HELL NO.

Hondahugger · 11-26-2008, 02:28 PM

I think that Honesty is the absolute BEST policy. Lies and secrets hurt too much when they're found out after the fact.

I believe I know who you're talking about on the casual dating and if that's who it is, then it's been long enough for that to have developed into something more. I think you're spinning your wheels a little there.

And if you're really into bachelor # 1 and really want something more with him and have any kind of feelings for him, the 'something' that happened with Bachelor # 2 wouldn't have happened. I think you need to figure out how you feel about # 1 before you make a move in either direction.

But that's just my $.02

shmike · 11-26-2008, 02:32 PM

No exclusivity equals no need to know.

DIMford · 11-26-2008, 02:33 PM

agree with Hondahugger.

Hondahugger · 11-26-2008, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by shmike

No exclusivity equals no need to know.

alright, lets pretend you're not engaged to Tiffany and all of that and you've been dating a girl for a couple of weeks, but there's nothing exclusive. After the date, one thing leads to another and you sleep together. Condoms used, yada, yada, yada.

How would you feel if the next day, she up and tells you she had sex with some other guy right before your date with her the night before? And then another guy the day before?

11-26-2008, 01:52 PM	#1
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	Dating Situation? You hang out with someone and are very casually dating. You have not slept with them.You are not exclusive but hope to be one day. "Something" happens with someone else. Are you obligated to tell the other person? Would YOU tell this other person?

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papapoi Lost Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Florida Panhandle Posts: 178	none of there business they dont own you. __________________

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ceo012384 Pompous Prick Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: MA Moto: 06 R6 (race), 04 CRF Tard (race) Posts: 3,040	No and HELL NO. __________________ LRRS/CCS #123 Boston Moto Dunlop Woodcraft 35 Motorsports Sidi Pit Bull K&N Filters

11-26-2008, 02:33 PM	#9
DIMford Nothing beats the RWB Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Norfolk, Va Moto: 07 Honda Interceptor Posts: 305	agree with Hondahugger. __________________ The Road is a beautiful but dangerous mistress. She'll taunt and tease you with wonderful curves and glorious heights till you lose all control. Then leave you broken and bleeding to tease the next man.

11-26-2008, 02:08 PM	#2
Rider Moto GP Star Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 12,156	Since you are not exclusive with the person you are not obligated to tell them. If you hope to be exclusive with them someday, you need to be honest with them and tell them you want to be.

11-26-2008, 02:09 PM	#3
buzzcutt2 Fuzznutz Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Palm Beach Gardens, FL Moto: 98 ZX9 Posts: 999	I would not tell them anything...but that's just me.

11-26-2008, 02:32 PM	#8
shmike Follower Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 5,549	No exclusivity equals no need to know.