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Tmall · 04-05-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Maturity levels here are amazing sometimes. Its their past, let them deal with it. She probably shouldn't have come on here spouting off but then again some of your sure egg her on. I have met Jenna many times and find her to be very nice, she has never said a bad thing about Will to me. Will I hope I get to meet you on a ride soon as well. Relationships are hard and can take bad turns. Using those bad breakups as something to laugh at online when both parties are present is just bad form. Everyone on here has their own issues in life. Worry more about those and less about other people's pasts/issues.

Now flame me. Guess I deserve it now too.

The reason why you'll never see anybody here making fun or me for MY issues is because I keep my dirty laundry to myself. If I air it out for you all to see, then I guess I shouldn't complain when you point out the poo stains in my drawers huh?

Trip · 04-05-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Its their past, let them deal with it.

Unfortunately for us, some aren't capable of dealing with it off this board.

Both of them were specifically pmed and told to leave their past off this board, only one continually keeps bring it up on this board. I like her as a person and have never had any issues with her and always felt the same way you do. However, I am tired of trying to monitor this situation. If she wishes to blast Will on the board, then she has to pay for the consequences from the rest of the members from now on. I will not be moderating this shit anymore.

Also, maturity levels were evented by boring people who were jealous of people having fun.

azoomm · 04-05-2010, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Maturity levels here are amazing sometimes. Its their past, let them deal with it. She probably shouldn't have come on here spouting off but then again some of your sure egg her on. I have met Jenna many times and find her to be very nice, she has never said a bad thing about Will to me. Will I hope I get to meet you on a ride soon as well. Relationships are hard and can take bad turns. Using those bad breakups as something to laugh at online when both parties are present is just bad form. Everyone on here has their own issues in life. Worry more about those and less about other people's pasts/issues.

Now flame me. Guess I deserve it now too.

You know what it is? It's that their relationship has been over for a LONG time. He's moved on - clearly moved on. He doesn't make comment about the past - in fact, he's actually had some attempts at civil behavior iirc.

She sticks around because this is where he hangs out.

So, you met her in person, and she wasn't able to put on the same face she puts on here. Not unusual for someone to be passive agressive and only lash out when the other person can't see your face.

She needs to move on.

101lifts2 · 04-05-2010, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by azoomm

.....So, you met her in person, and she wasn't able to put on the same face she puts on here. Not unusual for someone to be passive agressive and only lash out when the other person can't see your face.

She needs to move on.

Isn't this the m.o. of most chicks?

I keed keed.

HokieDNA01 · 04-05-2010, 12:00 PM

But it seems people are talking behind the scenes and then it is coming out from people that weren't even involved. Maybe I dont know all the back story but I see Jenna getting bashed a lot and it isn't even by Will. That would upset me too.

Trip · 04-05-2010, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

But it seems people are talking behind the scenes and then it is coming out from people that weren't even involved. Maybe I dont know all the back story but I see Jenna getting bashed a lot and it isn't even by Will. That would upset me too.

Well she should blast them back, not blast Will in a thread that had nothing to do with her.

HokieDNA01 · 04-05-2010, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Trip

Well she should blast them back, not blast Will in a thread that had nothing to do with her.

Ok that I will agree with. Jenna's post was harsh and I think Will has done a great job biting his tongue. But I'm sure she thinks he is really bad talking her if other people keep bringing it up. Where else are they hearing it from? I think I would be more upset hearing other bash me knowing they are talking about it behind my back then if my ex came out and did it himself.

Ok enough from me. I'm butting out. I just hate to see 2 people that live so close to me get into it so bad. I know break ups are hard. Trust me. Life is about looking to the future. If the past isn't positive , put it behind you and don't look back.

Trip · 04-05-2010, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Ok that I will agree with. Jenna's post was harsh and I think Will has done a great job biting his tongue. But I'm sure she thinks he is really bad talking her if other people keep bringing it up. Where else are they hearing it from?

I can only speak for the mod forum, not phone calls or PMs, but Will isn't discussing it on here that I can tell. He may have done so through phone calls to talk through it with friends, which is fully expected since that is what friends are for, but he isn't going around on here bad mouthing her. As far as I can tell, he moved on and is starting down a new road.

Which we both know, can be a hell of a lot more painful for the other person than bad mouthing.

Amber Lamps · 04-06-2010, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Trip

I can only speak for the mod forum, not phone calls or PMs, but Will isn't discussing it on here that I can tell. He may have done so through phone calls to talk through it with friends, which is fully expected since that is what friends are for, but he isn't going around on here bad mouthing her. As far as I can tell, he moved on and is starting down a new road.

Which we both know, can be a hell of a lot more painful for the other person than bad mouthing.

There is no greater revenge than being happy and living well! He's gotten his poop in a group and has a smoking hot gf. I don't know about her but I'd imagine that she's run out of roadies and light techs by now...

Amber Lamps · 04-06-2010, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

Ok that I will agree with. Jenna's post was harsh and I think Will has done a great job biting his tongue. But I'm sure she thinks he is really bad talking her if other people keep bringing it up. Where else are they hearing it from? I think I would be more upset hearing other bash me knowing they are talking about it behind my back then if my ex came out and did it himself.

Ok enough from me. I'm butting out. I just hate to see 2 people that live so close to me get into it so bad. I know break ups are hard. Trust me. Life is about looking to the future. If the past isn't positive , put it behind you and don't look back.

Maybe, but I seem to remember your break-up taking up quite a bit of space in my inbox...

A lot of us have "known" him for several years, so when it all came down he turned to his friends to vent, etc...Just like I'm sure that she went to hers-if she has any that weren't his to begin with- to vent, etc. I think we all kept a pretty decent lid on the whole thing for quite some time considering the circumstances. I mean, if you knew what she had done I'm sure that you'd have a different opinion of the situation.

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