Dating Situation? - Page 5

Trip · 11-26-2008, 07:06 PM

I hate mind games. This thread reconfirms that since I haven't had real life experience for years.

askmrjesus · 11-26-2008, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyKell

I'm not making him wait for anything.

He wants to just let things happen. We only get to see each other about once a week...

...he's not willing to take this any further than what it is right now (some high school make out sessions and a few hours a week. :rolleyes). Hiss loss.

What!?!

You're hot, he's gay, end of story.

JC

OneSickPsycho · 11-26-2008, 08:15 PM

I don't understand why everyone complicates things like this... There are three types of relationships in my eyes...

1) We fuck. That's it, nothing else... we just fuck. Nobody wants dinner, nobody wants anything other than the cock-vagina connection.

2) We are friends, who happen to fuck. Just as it says... we hang out sometimes, we have a beer, and we have no desire to do share more than casual conversation and bodily fluids.

3) We are BF/GF... It really doesn't take 300 dates to figure this shit out... I go out with a chick once and I know... this chick will be my GF. You either know that shit right away or it's never happening... refer to #1.

The whole 'we're just dating' or 'we're not exclusive' thing to me is a cop out. Every relationship I've ever been in has gone the same way... Meet girl, dig girl, one date with girl, really dig girl, girlfriend. Not to say it can't happen any other way, but if there's anything that has potential I know damn quick and I'm not about to fuck around with it.

Bottom line... If some chick ever told me she just wanted to 'date' that would say to me 'I want to fuck people... one of them might be you.' I'm totally comfortable with that, but I know at that very second... this will never be my GF.

Smittie61984 · 11-26-2008, 08:25 PM

Invite them both over and then BAM! BAM! BAM! BAM! BAM! BAMBAMBAM!!!

I'm not sure what you mean by "Very Casually Dating". Casual dating to me is say you meet someone at a store or whatever and you both agree to go on a date. You go on a few dates to try each other out to see if you guys come close to matching (Even though usually both parties are pretending to be something they are not to please the other party).

I say at that point it doesn't matter because you are trying each other out. Maybe this can compare to a small degree. There are a few gyms you like. You get a week trial to all 3 and you try all 3 out. You decide you like Gym A. There is no need to tell Gym A about it because they will be happy to have your business when you do sign up.

If that makes any sense.

Over200 · 11-26-2008, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyKell

There is so much more to it than this so I don't need to worry about that. I'm not going to get hurt here.

Sounds like it's time for another mistake!..What time you want me to pick you up?

Adeptus_Minor · 11-26-2008, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by fnfalman

Nothing wrong with drunken mistakes. Hell, without drunken mistakes, I wouldn't have gotten any action from the chicks at all.

I hear ya, man.
I'm long overdue for being one of Kell's drunken mistakes.

Quote:

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

The whole 'we're just dating' or 'we're not exclusive' thing to me is a cop out. Every relationship I've ever been in has gone the same way... Meet girl, dig girl, one date with girl, really dig girl, girlfriend. Not to say it can't happen any other way, but if there's anything that has potential I know damn quick and I'm not about to fuck around with it.

QFE

rogue · 11-26-2008, 09:55 PM

This thread reminds me of why I don't date or even try. Fuck all the bullshit.

Kelly, there's some great advice and arguments on both sides. You do what you think is best. Go with your gut instinct. If you think you're probably spinning your wheels, you probably are. But that's also going to depend on if he's a more laid back, take-it-slow type of person or a jump in with both fit, spontaneous person too.

cuttle · 11-26-2008, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

The whole 'we're just dating' or 'we're not exclusive' thing to me is a cop out. Every relationship I've ever been in has gone the same way... Meet girl, dig girl, one date with girl, really dig girl, girlfriend. Not to say it can't happen any other way, but if there's anything that has potential I know damn quick and I'm not about to fuck around with it.

totally agree with hello kitty

Over200 · 11-26-2008, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Rogue

This thread reminds me of why I don't date or even try. Fuck all the bullshit.

Kelly, there's some great advice and arguments on both sides. You do what you think is best. Go with your gut instinct. If you think you're probably spinning your wheels, you probably are. But that's also going to depend on if he's a more laid back, take-it-slow type of person or a jump in with both fit, spontaneous person too.

Yeah it reminds me of whats up with 90% of the women out there!!...PALEEASE!!....WHAT!!!...Pfffft!

Hondahugger · 11-26-2008, 10:14 PM

I know that anyone that I've been in a realationship with startede off as friend and i saw where it went from there,. I can't just casually date. It just doens't work out for me. Bootie calls aren't my thing and neither is a friend with beneifits. it's either there or it's not,.

11-26-2008, 08:25 PM	#44
Smittie61984 I give Squids a bad name Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Fly Over State Moto: 1996 CBR600 F3 (AKA the Flying Turd) Posts: 4,742	Invite them both over and then BAM! BAM! BAM! BAM! BAM! BAMBAMBAM!!! I'm not sure what you mean by "Very Casually Dating". Casual dating to me is say you meet someone at a store or whatever and you both agree to go on a date. You go on a few dates to try each other out to see if you guys come close to matching (Even though usually both parties are pretending to be something they are not to please the other party). I say at that point it doesn't matter because you are trying each other out. Maybe this can compare to a small degree. There are a few gyms you like. You get a week trial to all 3 and you try all 3 out. You decide you like Gym A. There is no need to tell Gym A about it because they will be happy to have your business when you do sign up. If that makes any sense. __________________ lifts - R.I.P.

11-26-2008, 08:15 PM	#43
OneSickPsycho Ride Like an Asshole Join Date: Feb 2008 Moto: nothing... Posts: 11,254	I don't understand why everyone complicates things like this... There are three types of relationships in my eyes... 1) We fuck. That's it, nothing else... we just fuck. Nobody wants dinner, nobody wants anything other than the cock-vagina connection. 2) We are friends, who happen to fuck. Just as it says... we hang out sometimes, we have a beer, and we have no desire to do share more than casual conversation and bodily fluids. 3) We are BF/GF... It really doesn't take 300 dates to figure this shit out... I go out with a chick once and I know... this chick will be my GF. You either know that shit right away or it's never happening... refer to #1. The whole 'we're just dating' or 'we're not exclusive' thing to me is a cop out. Every relationship I've ever been in has gone the same way... Meet girl, dig girl, one date with girl, really dig girl, girlfriend. Not to say it can't happen any other way, but if there's anything that has potential I know damn quick and I'm not about to fuck around with it. Bottom line... If some chick ever told me she just wanted to 'date' that would say to me 'I want to fuck people... one of them might be you.' I'm totally comfortable with that, but I know at that very second... this will never be my GF.