Dear Abby... - Page 3

Adeptus_Minor · 02-02-2009, 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by jtemple

I'm All for corporal punishment. I use it on my own son. The key is to figure out what is effective on your child and follow through with punishments. If your punishments are nothing but empty threats, they are guaranteed to fail.

If you are going to use physical punishment on a child, it is very important that you dish it out without anger. If you are angry, Send your kid to their room while you cool off. Parents that get angry and punish their children are more likely to lose control and take it too far.

As stated above, be quick to show your child some love after punishment.

Best way I could think to put it.

the chi · 02-02-2009, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by fatbuckRTO

Jesus Christ, my dad would have taken me in the back yard and made me a cripple. And rightly so.

My mom slapped me one time when I was about 14, and I saw it coming and could have caught her hand. I didn't because I knew exactly what would have happened to me if I did.

Reminds me of the one and only time I got in my mom's face, sorta (shes 8 inches taller than me). We were arguing, and I antagonized her into hitting me. Moms got one HELLUVA right hook. I never saw it coming! Then I did it again!! Thats the one and only time my mom EVER hit me like that, and I asked for it, literally!

Other than that, yeah, corporal punishment does require love, and respect on both parts.

pickle.of.doom · 02-02-2009, 02:03 AM

Hmmm...

My mom used to spank me with a ping pong paddle.

One day I had enough of that, grabbed it, started hitting her back with it.

101lifts2 · 02-02-2009, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by pickle.of.doom

Hmmm...

My mom used to spank me with a ping pong paddle.

One day I had enough of that, grabbed it, started hitting her back with it.

hahahahaha

Well u never learned did you!

rogue · 02-02-2009, 02:03 AM

Here's a good story:

I was 16 the last time my mama whipped me. She had grounded me from the phone & busted me using it when I *thought* she was asleep. She got me good with the belt. I squirmed the whole time she whipped me, causing me to have red marks the width of the belt in other places other than my ass. Being a rebellous shit, I threatened to call the cops on her for child abuse & she called my bluff by diaing the number & handing me the phone. So a cop came, asked questions & looked at all the red marks on my legs and even one on my chest. After making his inspection, he looked me right in the eyes & told me I deserved it, then left.

I guess hearing the cop take up for & that it was ok for her to "beat me" (this was in the late '80's), I didn't do anything else to warrant that type of punishment.

njchopper87 · 02-02-2009, 02:47 AM

I had my ass beat with a ruler, spatula, fly swatter, and other random cooking utensils. I deserved it each and every time.. I plan on doing the same to my kids as well. It works. Agreed though with the fine line shit.

fatbuckRTO · 02-02-2009, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by The Chi

As a result, my sisters disrespect, talk back, and walk all over my parents, with my oldest sister actaully raising her hand to them a time or 2. Grounding, time out, verbal punishment just simply doesnt do it. At least not in my family.

Whats ya'lls take?

Jesus Christ, my dad would have taken me in the back yard and made me a cripple. And rightly so.

My mom slapped me one time when I was about 14, and I saw it coming and could have caught her hand. I didn't because I knew exactly what would have happened to me if I did.

Lucky3623 · 02-09-2009, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by fatbuckRTO

My mom slapped me one time when I was about 14, and I saw it coming and could have caught her hand. I didn't because I knew exactly what would have happened to me if I did.

I did that 1 time... and lived to tell about it...

My parents would beat the living piss out of me... but I, as a little shit head, I deserved every bit of it. They didn't just beat me unmercifully, but when a spanking was needed... I got it.

I am an advocate of spanking. Pain is a good teacher. A friend of mine, back when we were little (around 5 or 6) stole a pack of gum from the store and got caught. His mom grounded him for 3 days. After he was ungrounded, a week later, he stole another pack of gum from the same store. My mother told me that if she ever caught me stealing ANYTHING, she would beat me until I was unable to sit down. I have never stolen a pack of gum... I am the youngest of 5, and we have all been spanked.

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