Vasectomy.

[Tmall]

Buttsex equals no babies...

[Tmall]

Well obviously since triple didn't marry her the minute they laid eyes on each other. And he obviously hasn't spent a million dollars on her, he must be a pedofile homo.

This is the kind of reasoning we're using to be internet psychiatrist?

You all should have your armchair quarter back degrees revoked ASAP!

[z06boy]

My ex wife and I got divorced due to her changing her mind about having kids. We discussed it and agreed that we didn't want any before hand.

Her best friend got pregnant...her sister got pregnant and then her cousin got pregnant.

I had gotten a vasectomy because I knew I didn't want any. She wanted me to get it reversed. I said no and one thing led to the next and we ended the marriage.

Part of the problem with us may have been that I was about 14 years older than her and she just felt different later and changed her mind. I didn't.

She's now remarried and has a little boy...good for her.

I'm remarried and the current wife still says no kids so we are doing fine.

She's only 10 years younger than me...hey that's closer.

I don't think that it's a good idea to get a vasectomy while married without first discussing it with your wife...just doesn't seem right. Man up and deal with the consequences.

[the chi]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

Really depends "how" he said it, how firm he was, how old he was at the time, etc. For example, a 21-year old saying he doesn't want kids doesn't hold much weight, because in just a few years most 21-year olds become totally different people with different goals. So, the girl could have thought, "well that's just how he feels now, but he'll probably change later"

I am amazed at the ability of some people to do things like vasectomies and keep it a secret, to me it'd be almost like cheating, there's no way I could hold it in very long. Why even have a "relationship" with a girl if you need to keep these kinds of secrets. Unless she's just a fuck-buddy, not a true partner. Which it's sounding more and more like it's the case here.

Originally Posted by z06boy

My ex wife and I got divorced due to her changing her mind about having kids. We discussed it and agreed that we didn't want any before hand.

Her best friend got pregnant...her sister got pregnant and then her cousin got pregnant.

I had gotten a vasectomy because I knew I didn't want any. She wanted me to get it reversed. I said no and one thing led to the next and we ended the marriage.

Part of the problem with us may have been that I was about 14 years older than her and she just felt different later and changed her mind. I didn't.

She's now remarried and has a little boy...good for her.

I'm remarried and the current wife still says no kids so we are doing fine.

She's only 10 years younger than me...hey that's closer.

I don't think that it's a good idea to get a vasectomy while married without first discussing it with your wife...just doesn't seem right. Man up and deal with the consequences.

Two more male voices of reason.

Triple, I dont know how old you are, I dont knw if you truly want a divorce or not, but maybe the advice of a few guys who seem to have their heads on straight versus a few "emotional" women will hold more weight. Good luck man.

[Apoc]

your calling Homeslice a voice of reason? Lol.

[cuttle]

fast forward 20 years:

Triple and Triplewife are still married, she's on heavy duty depression meds for not being able to get pregnant. He finally spills the beans and tells her that he had a vasectomy 20 years ago...... she goes to the closet, takes a gun and shoots him in the groin, he bleeds to death.

5 month later the court declares her innocent.

The End

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by The Chi

Two more male voices of reason.

Triple, I dont know how old you are, I dont knw if you truly want a divorce or not, but maybe the advice of a few guys who seem to have their heads on straight versus a few "emotional" women will hold more weight. Good luck man.

Rae, why is it that everyone that agrees with you is "a voice of reason"? I'd imagine that you discussed getting breast implants with your man before you did it. What if he would have said no? What then? Okay, I totally agree with you that he should discuss this with his wife. Fine. She's obviously going to say "no way". What then? Like I said before, this is a no win situation for Triple period. The end result is going to be divorce, of that I have zero doubt. He should do everything in his power to ensure that there won't be any children involved. If he doesn't get fixed while they're together, he had better make an appointment 5 minutes after they split up!

[Kaneman]

This shouldn't even be a discussion. Triple, amigo, its time to call a lawyer.
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[the chi]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Rae, why is it that everyone that agrees with you is "a voice of reason"? I'd imagine that you discussed getting breast implants with your man before you did it. What if he would have said no? What then? Okay, I totally agree with you that he should discuss this with his wife. Fine. She's obviously going to say "no way". What then? Like I said before, this is a no win situation for Triple period. The end result is going to be divorce, of that I have zero doubt. He should do everything in his power to ensure that there won't be any children involved. If he doesn't get fixed while they're together, he had better make an appointment 5 minutes after they split up!

Perhaps its because I use logic, rationality, and morality in my arguments, versus telling someone its ok to lie to someone who chose to love, cherish, and honor, etc for marriage vows.

I dont use my past bad experience "in the hood" to tell people that because I get myself involved with lying cheating women that try to "trap" me into things, that all women are like that and its a good idea to lie to someone in a manner that could ruin her life versus just telling her like a man and her dealing or divorcing.

NAhhhhh....that couldnt be it.

[Tmall]

I guess the course of action every one can agree on us divorce.


Didn't we have a thread like this a little while ago?

And weren't the people who were giving the "best" advice either divorced multiple times, married or engaged after knowing the so for about a year?


Do what you want triple. If you told her you didn't want kids. She is the one to deal with that. Not you. It may not be completely honest, but at least when she forgets her pill on purpose, you'll be covered.