age/women

[Phenix_Rider]

This thread keeps going and going (insert energizer bunny)

Originally Posted by Adeptus_Minor

Well, ok... but it always sounds so greedy when I say I'm looking for three or four.

Originally Posted by xx CURVE xx

Try being 36 and looking 26

Heh- I'm in the same boat. If I ever bought cigarettes, I'd get carded. At least I don't get it going to an R movie anymore

Originally Posted by xx CURVE xx

cause i don't want to date anyone that can't buy a beer
and thats the only ones that seem to want...most ladies "my age" either look like shit, have 5 kids, been married 3 times, etc etc... thanks by the way

Where are you? That sounds like my area!

Originally Posted by Rogue

Most men's ideal mate seems to be an anorexic trophy wife with big boobs and looks innocent yet a freak in bed. And young. Let's not forget young...

You got part of that right. As for the anorexic, trophy, and so on- no thanks. Why anyone would want a barbie (or ken) doll is beyond me. Brains, and (for lack of a better word) balls are more important than anything.

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by azoomm

At the end of the day, you can try and blame other people for not being perfect all you want - every failed relationship you have had does have one clear thing in common with the others. You.

Know yourself.

Like yourself.

If you don't like who YOU are, how can you expect anyone else to like you [let alone love you]. Understanding what you have to offer another person is a fantastic thing to bring to a relationship.

I knew of all the failed relationships something would come from it, be it learning what I want or dont want etc...

I do love who I am which is exactly why i am not willing to change for anyone to accommodate what they want in a person. Thanks for chiming in though, I do enjoy your input.

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by cbrchick

Heya D.....

I think you're a good catch

Single at 28 isn't a bad thing. Don't let your age get you down. It's so freak'n young.

My 28th year was my best year. I had had a few long term relationships, learned a lot and finally decided not to settle for what was really important in a partner. I also learned over time to drop some of my "ideal" wants in a mate.

I know you have this thing with tattoos, kids etc.... But good people come with history. Try to have an open mind and date people you wouldn't normally date.

I always thought I wanted someone with a university education, no tattoos, a 9-5 job....

I married a military boy with 9 tattoos, a huge black beast of a dog (I've never ever owned a dog), no university education, and physically he is shorter and thinner than my conquests.

He is my best friend. He treats me beyond special in ways people who love one another should. He makes me laugh. He's kind, outgoing, and loves his family. He's smart, creative and has a wicked work ethic.

Hell, he rode a GasGas when we met.

I always thought I didn't want to marry someone that was away a lot with work, b/c my father was a lot when we were growing up. My husband was gone close to 7 months over all in our first year of marriage.

He was was not the person I "thought" I would marry, but I can't imagine spending my life with anyone else.

Open yourself up to other possibilities. Take advantage of every opportunity to meet new people. And take a chance on someone you might not normally.

My 28th year was my best year.

We all get old, we old get wrinkled and our bodies fall apart. Find someone with a good heart, a curious mind, and desire for life.

Thanks you darlin. again congrats to you and the soon to be little one.

I generally do not have a problem dating any person, I just have a few requirements that they have to meet. Like I have said before I am attracted to women that have tattoos because of the attitude and how they carry themselves, but I just can not see myself with a wife that has tattoos.

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by The Chi

BUt he did admit that I appear quality, and Kell too...so you cant have it both ways. Ink doesnt affect WHO a person is or their quality. Dova is only limiting himself to like 2% of the young single female pop. these days. His choice.

Something to think about if tats offend you...unless you saw many of us naked, you'd never know we had tats.

If you met me in my office, in professional attire, you'd never know I have tats, can sport a mohawk (in green no less), can do my own mechanic work, and can ride the wheels off my bike on the street and track. According to some people, I look like a tiny lil pixie who might break if you look at me too hard. Oh yeah, I also look like a nice person! Appearances are so very deceiving no?

Tell me about the 2% its quite difficult to find a girl that does not have them.

Tattoos do not offend me, I enjoy looking at them some truly are pieces of art. I just do not want a wife with one... I cant explain it

[fnfalman]

Originally Posted by Dova80

Tattoos do not offend me, I enjoy looking at them some truly are pieces of art. I just do not want a wife with one... I cant explain it

Usually they don't marry you unless they date you first. Of coure there's always the foreign bride order route.

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by fnfalman

Usually they don't marry you unless they date you first. Of coure there's always the foreign bride order route.

Thought about that too, there are some smoking hot eastern european women that want to come to america lol

[Homeslice]

I don't see where you're meeting women where "most" of them have ink. I'm gonna guess less than 20% of women have ink, and even among that 20%, most of them just have the tramp stamp right at the beltline, and no other ink. Nothing to write home about.

[Adeptus_Minor]

While you might be correct about the tramp stamp or other small flash, I would say that 20% around here would be women who have no ink at all.
And most of them are either much older, or too young to have anything yet.

[Tmall]

As for the height issue, I prefer a woman much smaller than myself. There are many reasons. The main one being that I'm a pervert, and that's the only reasons I need.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by Dova80

I knew of all the failed relationships something would come from it, be it learning what I want or dont want etc...

I do love who I am which is exactly why i am not willing to change for anyone to accommodate what they want in a person. Thanks for chiming in though, I do enjoy your input.

It's more a personal mantra that I went through when struggling with being single. Maybe a move is in order... I would suggest Austin as the dating mecca that it is - but a lot of tats down here.

You're a great catch, man... I say, be aware of the little things that you have on that check list - but stop looking for them FIRST.