ok so wedding question - Page 2

Mr Lefty · 11-26-2008, 12:51 AM

no god damn it! leave now on your bike... and come back after the wedding

Amorok · 11-26-2008, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Ebbs15

no god damn it! leave now on your bike... and come back after the wedding

Negstive. Leave on your bike now, wait until she goes to the wedding, and then move all your shit out. If you don't want to marry her after three years why stay any longer? Ass is plentiful, cheap, and of fantastic variety. Go find out.

JARVIS518 · 11-26-2008, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Corey

This. And enjoy the "when are we getting married" questions that will pop up just before, during and constantly after.

been dealing with that for 3 years
thats nothing new

pauldun170 · 11-26-2008, 12:51 AM

Have fun at the wedding!!

Dave · 11-26-2008, 12:55 AM

you will if you want any booty anytime soon

DLIT · 11-28-2008, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Flexin

3 years? Have fun at the wedding.

Yup.

neebelung · 11-26-2008, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by JARVIS518

NO NOT MINE!!

ok so my girlfriend's sister is getting married at the end of march and would like to have some opinions on whether or not i have to go?
we've been together for 3 years if that means anything...

Does your girlfriend want you to go? Yes? Then yes, you have to go.

After three years, you're considered an established couple, and it would raise questions if you DIDN'T go, so go, if only to keep your girlfriend from having to answer a million questions about why you're not there.

Papa_Complex · 11-26-2008, 08:57 AM

Suck it up man. Sometimes you have to do the big boy things, even if you don't want to.

... unless, of course, you want to break up with your girlfriend in a public forum

Melissue76 · 11-26-2008, 09:10 AM

I think u should go.......can't say that I cared too much for my SIL BF of 9 years anyway but when he didn't show up to our wedding, we were all done trying to be nice to him. (& she is no longer w/him btw) We would've understood if he had something going on that was emergency or a vacation planned way before the wedding. But the whole "I don't like weddings" felt like "I don't like hanging out with your family...they suck"
**even if you feel that way...u still have to respect her family, not for them, but for her.

It would suck for her to explain why you are not there.

vickibocc · 11-26-2008, 01:57 PM

Thank you to everybody on my side! Like I said he's just being a big baby. Last night as we were falling asleep he was asking me what he had to do to get out of it. He offered a house, car, and babies. I told him it's not up for negotiation (especially since I know he's full of shit lol - considering the few times he's told me "If you do this, I swear I will marry you tomorrow"...and I'm still here as a Miss, not a Mrs. lol).

But yes! You are all right. When you get to a certain point in a relationship, you are expected to be at family functions. And as I said before, he gets along with everyone in my family, but gets along very well with my dad, step mom, and brother...so he can hide out with them all night if he chooses too. I'm the maid of honor so I'll have to be mingling a bit.

Oh and to the guy that suggested apendicitis a few pages back. Good try, but he already got his appendix out when he was a kid lol. Another benefit of being together for a while...I know his medical history lol.

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Dave Chaotic Neutral Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Cherry Hill NJ Moto: GV1200 Madura, Hawk gt Posts: 13,992	you will if you want any booty anytime soon __________________ TWF Post whore #6

11-26-2008, 09:10 AM	#9
Melissue76 Sugar & spice.... Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Carver Posts: 84	I think u should go.......can't say that I cared too much for my SIL BF of 9 years anyway but when he didn't show up to our wedding, we were all done trying to be nice to him. (& she is no longer w/him btw) We would've understood if he had something going on that was emergency or a vacation planned way before the wedding. But the whole "I don't like weddings" felt like "I don't like hanging out with your family...they suck" even if you feel that way...u still have to respect her family, not for them, but for her. It would suck for her to explain why you are not there. __________________ http://www.ccwrx.com**

11-26-2008, 12:51 AM	#1
Mr Lefty TWFix Legend Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Denver CO Moto: 01 BMW F650GS Dakar Posts: 15,677	no god damn it! leave now on your bike... and come back after the wedding

11-26-2008, 12:51 AM	#4
pauldun170 Serious Business Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: New York Moto: 1993 ZX-11 2008 CBR1000rr Posts: 9,723	Have fun at the wedding!!

11-26-2008, 08:57 AM	#8
Papa_Complex Nomadic Tribesman Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Brampton, Canada Moto: '09 ER-6n Posts: 11,150	Suck it up man. Sometimes you have to do the big boy things, even if you don't want to. ... unless, of course, you want to break up with your girlfriend in a public forum

11-26-2008, 01:57 PM	#10
vickibocc Meh Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South FL Moto: the backseat of an '06 600rr Posts: 220	Thank you to everybody on my side! Like I said he's just being a big baby. Last night as we were falling asleep he was asking me what he had to do to get out of it. He offered a house, car, and babies. I told him it's not up for negotiation (especially since I know he's full of shit lol - considering the few times he's told me "If you do this, I swear I will marry you tomorrow"...and I'm still here as a Miss, not a Mrs. lol). But yes! You are all right. When you get to a certain point in a relationship, you are expected to be at family functions. And as I said before, he gets along with everyone in my family, but gets along very well with my dad, step mom, and brother...so he can hide out with them all night if he chooses too. I'm the maid of honor so I'll have to be mingling a bit. Oh and to the guy that suggested apendicitis a few pages back. Good try, but he already got his appendix out when he was a kid lol. Another benefit of being together for a while...I know his medical history lol.