Cheating

[Trip]

talking and flirting I wouldn't consider cheating, going out for lunch (coworkers) and group activities and such, but if it gets into dating like activities and beyond is where I would draw the line.

I would break it off immediately and be done, one strike and you're out. Trust is important to me and cheating pretty much shows it isn't to the person, so fuck them.

[skiergirl]

I couldn't do it! I had a cheating boyfriend once and he was out the door the same day. I would never be able to trust that person again no matter what they said or did. Just me though, many do decide to work it out and from what I've seen that rarely works for more than a short period of time.

The key is if you decide to work it out and 'forgive' the other then you better damn well forgive it. Don't bring it up when you get mad, or use it against the other. forgive, talk figure out what when wrong, fix it and let it go....you can't keep rubbing it in their face. seen too many couples do just that and they end up splitting later anyway.

[MILK]

Originally Posted by skiergirl

I would never be able to trust that person again no matter what they said or did.

Bingo.

Also the old saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is really really true.

[Smittie61984]

Originally Posted by skiergirl

The key is if you decide to work it out and 'forgive' the other then you better damn well forgive it. Don't bring it up when you get mad, or use it against the other. forgive, talk figure out what when wrong, fix it and let it go....you can't keep rubbing it in their face. seen too many couples do just that and they end up splitting later anyway.

Right on. Nor can the person cheated on use it as a "free" pass to fuck around.

I wouldn't know what to do. My girlfriend is the 1st really serious girlfriend I had or cared about. Other girls I didn't give a fuck who she was fucking as long as she was fucking me too. It was more of a "don't ask don't tell" thing going on.

I trust my gf 100%. If she did I would know too because she can't live with the guilt.

Now she is allowed to kiss or bang girls as long as she films it or I'm involved

We also have 2 people each we can fuck without it being cheating.
Mine are Megan Fox and Carmen Electra
She wants Mark Walhberg and the Stiffler guy.

[Quick281]

Originally Posted by Trip

talking and flirting I wouldn't consider cheating, going out for lunch (coworkers) and group activities and such, but if it gets into dating like activities and beyond is where I would draw the line.

I would break it off immediately and be done, one strike and you're out. Trust is important to me and cheating pretty much shows it isn't to the person, so fuck them.

Thats pretty much how I feel.

[Homeslice]

Originally Posted by Speedracer42

But I know for example, one woman who cheated after begging for YEARS her husband to give her more attention, have sex with her more, be a better presence in the house.

Then break the hell up!

If you aren't getting what you want, move on. It's that simple. Kids or finances be damned (you're kidding yourself if you think staying together is what's best for your kids).

People who cheat while using their SO as a safety blanket are the lamest kind of people. Too weak to communicate what they want, too weak to break up if they don't get what they want, and too immoral to feel bad about cheating.

[CrazyKell]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

Then break the hell up!

If you aren't getting what you want, move on. Kids or finances be damned. It's that simple.

People who cheat while using their SO as a safety blanket are the worst kind of people. Too weak to communicate what they want, or too weak to break up if they don't get it.

Plus one million.

[Kaneman]

Cheating is always such an interesting subject. As a married man I can say the thought of only having sex with one woman for the rest of my life is a frightening thought and one that I don't feel is realistic for most people.

Luckily my beautiful wife likes other girls too. The couple that fucks other chics together stays together.

[MILK]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

Then break the hell up!

If you aren't getting what you want, move on. It's that simple. Kids or finances be damned (you're kidding yourself if you think staying together is what's best for your kids).

People who cheat while using their SO as a safety blanket are the lamest kind of people. Too weak to communicate what they want, too weak to break up if they don't get what they want, and too immoral to feel bad about cheating.

. So true!!

[BobTheBiker]

Been there with an ex, the answer is FUCK NO. the instant I find out you cheated on me with another person, you're gone like a turd goin down the crapper.