Vasectomy.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Triple

I would have to buy her out of the house, she wouldn't just sign it over to me after contributing to the mortgage herself these past two years. I can't afford to do that.

I may make it sound like I want out of the relationship, but that isn't necessarily the case. All of the things I love about her are what convinced me to go through with the marriage. Having kids is going too far, however.

In her defense, she knows we aren't ready right now. She wants a kid in two to three years. I'm met with anger and tears when I remind her that I never want children, so now when she starts in with the "when-we-have-a-baby-this, when-we-have-a-baby-that," I just reply, "we have dogs."

Think you are screwed dude. No good way around it. You can either buy some more time with her or let the shit hit the fan soon. Then there is the just cave into her demands, but that's no life for you either. It's a shame no matter how you look at it.

[Homeslice]

Originally Posted by Trip

Apparently he isn't allowed stupid decisions and poor choices, while others are alotted such mistakes as "learning" experiences.

The difference is, he posts questions like these even though he's already made up his mind.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

The difference is, he posts questions like these even though he's already made up his mind.

He just asked questions about the procedure at the start of the thread, we threw in the drama.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Trip

He just asked questions about the procedure at the start of the thread, we threw in the drama.

Guilty! That's what I tried to say too! All this drama is my fault but to my credit, I did initially try to give him information and advice on the procedure...

[Destitute]

Originally Posted by Triple

Preventing my wife from having children is my way of "going green."

Noble intentions, I assure you.

If it hasn't already been said, having a vasectomy will not prevent your wife from having children. It might prevent them from being yours.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Guilty! That's what I tried to say too! All this drama is my fault but to my credit, I did initially try to give him information and advice on the procedure...

It's never just one person's fault, but you made a damn good effort into proving that wrong.

[Particle Man]

Dude, if it turns green you have more to worry about than kids

Originally Posted by Destitute

If it hasn't already been said, having a vasectomy will not prevent your wife from having children. It might prevent them from being yours.

good point

[MILK]

I would get the vasectomy then tell her. Chances are she's bluffing about the divorce anyway. After all, she knew before saying I DO.. If not, well splitting up a bunch of STUFF is small potatoes over trying to do it when there is a kid involved..

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Trip

It's never just one person's fault, but you made a damn good effort into proving that wrong.

Ha whatever, you said basically the same thing I did but for some reason no one jumped on you hmmmmmm......

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by MILK

I would get the vasectomy then tell her. Chances are she's bluffing about the divorce anyway. After all, she knew before saying I DO.. If not, well splitting up a bunch of STUFF is small potatoes over trying to do it when there is a kid involved..

Omg where the hell were you? I swear I said the same shit!