age/women

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by Dave

heh the one before was actually a forum hookup. id talked to her a bit while i was in iraq then lost touch, saw her on after i got back said hi and things went from there. distance killed that one though. distance and careers

distance can certainly kill a relationship thats for sure, I have learned the hard way..

Originally Posted by Dave

my kind of party! half naked women and a baby!

[Porkchop]

Originally Posted by ebbs15

:I did find one not too long ago that was quite an ideal catch... only problem... someone else "caught" her before I could.

Story of my life.....

[OneSickPsycho]

I feel ya.

You think it's hard for you? Hell, try being just as picky, if not more... then be me... an arrogant, egotistical, genius, angry, crass, vulgar, blunt, disgusting, curt fat guy who hates everyone and anything because of his superior intellect and amazing sense of humor.

Finding a girl that's physically attractive is easy enough... then she fucks it up by opening her mouth... either with being retarded, a cunt, or acknowledging a fuckton of baggage (kids, psycho ex, irrational love for liberals, etc).

If you get past that, something ruins it for me. A specific habit or something that gets under my skin damn quickly and makes me want to kill her (not in a good way). Like this girl who started as a good friend, blossomed into an amazing sexual relationship, then the first time in a year of knowing her that we eat together... she chews with her mouth open. Instant no-go.

Now if by some stroke of amazing a girl makes it a month... I start looking for things. It's about that point in time I can determine if it has long term potential or not, then I cut out... but first I need to build enough of an position against her. I am just naturally a hyper-critical person so it's pretty easy. My biggest fear is that I'll fool myself into sticking around, wasting time with someone who I know I cannot love... Why? Cause I've done it.

Like Ebbs... I had 'the one' once. Well twice. The first time doesn't count because I didn't realize until AFTERWARDS and it was way too late. Chalk that up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded. The 2nd almost made it. Granted, I don't miss her anymore and I can certainly see why things fell apart... however, had I met her a few years later... blah, blah, blah... Chalk that shit up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded.

Long story short. Welcome to the party pal.

[Dova80]

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

I feel ya.

You think it's hard for you? Hell, try being just as picky, if not more... then be me... an arrogant, egotistical, genius, angry, crass, vulgar, blunt, disgusting, curt fat guy who hates everyone and anything because of his superior intellect and amazing sense of humor.

Finding a girl that's physically attractive is easy enough... then she fucks it up by opening her mouth... either with being retarded, a cunt, or acknowledging a fuckton of baggage (kids, psycho ex, irrational love for liberals, etc).

If you get past that, something ruins it for me. A specific habit or something that gets under my skin damn quickly and makes me want to kill her (not in a good way). Like this girl who started as a good friend, blossomed into an amazing sexual relationship, then the first time in a year of knowing her that we eat together... she chews with her mouth open. Instant no-go.

Now if by some stroke of amazing a girl makes it a month... I start looking for things. It's about that point in time I can determine if it has long term potential or not, then I cut out... but first I need to build enough of an position against her. I am just naturally a hyper-critical person so it's pretty easy. My biggest fear is that I'll fool myself into sticking around, wasting time with someone who I know I cannot love... Why? Cause I've done it.

Like Ebbs... I had 'the one' once. Well twice. The first time doesn't count because I didn't realize until AFTERWARDS and it was way too late. Chalk that up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded. The 2nd almost made it. Granted, I don't miss her anymore and I can certainly see why things fell apart... however, had I met her a few years later... blah, blah, blah... Chalk that shit up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded.

Long story short. Welcome to the party pal.

we must be leading dual lives...

[Mr Lefty]

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

Like Ebbs... I had 'the one' once. Well twice. The first time doesn't count because I didn't realize until AFTERWARDS and it was way too late. Chalk that up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded. The 2nd almost made it. Granted, I don't miss her anymore and I can certainly see why things fell apart... however, had I met her a few years later... blah, blah, blah... Chalk that shit up to being young, immature, and fucking retarded.

Long story short. Welcome to the party pal.

well that's not really what happened with me... she left me... she got pregnant... came back... left again... got pregnant again... and married the guy... but is still in love with me... just married the guy because he's the dad of her children... and he's a good guy...

or at least that's the story she gave me...

I don't consider her "the one" but that's of course because I don't belive in there being One person for each of us...

[OneSickPsycho]

Originally Posted by ebbs15

well that's not really what happened with me... she left me... she got pregnant... came back... left again... got pregnant again... and married the guy... but is still in love with me... just married the guy because he's the dad of her children... and he's a good guy...

or at least that's the story she gave me...

I don't consider her "the one" but that's of course because I don't belive in there being One person for each of us...

My comparison between our situations ended with 'once.'

I don't buy that 'only one' crap either... I just refer to them as 'the one' as in... the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with... you know, impregnate, shotgun marry, beat all the time, and end up getting shot by in a fit of rage.

[Mr Lefty]

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

My comparison between our situations ended with 'once.'

I don't buy that 'only one' crap either... I just refer to them as 'the one' as in... the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with... you know, impregnate, shotgun marry, beat all the time, and end up getting shot by in a fit of rage.

ahh

and yeah then she was one of "the one"s

[OneSickPsycho]

I am pretty convinced that I am going to end up with one of two things.

1) Someone like me, who just hasn't found that person.

Hopefully...

2) A hot 20 year old chick who is very mature and a lesbian. A girl who falls in love with me, for me... but still needs to like a box sometimes... and encourages my full-support of her sexuality... and playthings.

[the chi]

Interesting thread...thanks my lovely gents for the very sweet compliments, Ebbs I love you too hunny!

1) What may I ask is wrong with tattoos?

While it may not be your preference of art, today it is mainstream and is a true form of self expression. And yes, I have 3 to be exact, and hope to have more. I try to keep mine tasteful, but they are to MY taste, and honestly, anyone who has a problem with them, its just that. THEIR problem. If you met me on the street, youd never know I have my ink.

If your looking for a good woman, try looking further than skin deep. True beauty, quality and goodness isnt on the cheap pretty wrapper.

2) This whole thing about not looking, whether you believe in it or not, well, its usually the best way to go about it. Honestly. When you are LOOKING, you arent SEEING and people have a tendency to assign the attirbutes or lack thereof to the current flames. Intentional or not, it happens. And once you realize that person isnt what you have made them out to be in your head, the "love is gone" so to speak. Literally.

3) Try adjusting your outlook a bit. Tho I dont know you, and it may just be the alcohol talking, well, your attitudes towards women seems to be a tad on the "poor" side. Just reading a few lines into your post I was slightly offended, being a woman, by your overall post was slightly demeaning, almost as if you see us as inferior beings who offend you with our ink, our difference in views from yours and our sometimes already having reproduced.

4) Your BIGGEST problem??

YOUR IN OKLAHOMA!!! Ok, sorry had to. I was born there, I know what Im not missing, and honestly, choosing from candidates that are most likely all from the same gene pool I can see as unappetizing!! I am related to half the state, so I know. Trust me!

And OH YEAH, boys you can clone me, but never forget, there can be only ONE of the genuine RaeRae!

[Mr Lefty]

wtf makes you think I was talk'n about YOU rae?