is pr0n still innocent if...

itgirl · 01-17-2010, 09:26 AM

...you kinda know the person in the pics you are viewing? perhaps not personally, but maybe via internet forum/friendly acquaintance or such? just curious where one draws the line. one person's playmate is another person's wife/sister/mother...etc.

Cutty72 · 01-17-2010, 09:35 AM

Sure why not?
I'd say as long as it's not like your best friends gf/wife or something.

Tmall · 01-17-2010, 09:38 AM

I can't believe nobody has asked.. Pics?

itgirl · 01-17-2010, 09:56 AM

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

Flexin · 01-17-2010, 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong?

Yes it is. Double-standards are wrong. Showing the pics will correct this.

James

Did he take the pics?

James

Cutty72 · 01-17-2010, 10:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

As long as those "others" aren't people that you or him deal with on a daily basis I don't see real problems with it.
Now if the pics were going to your coworkers or his friends etc, then I could see his hesitation.

itgirl · 01-17-2010, 10:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flexin

Yes it is. Double-standards are wrong. Showing the pics will correct this.

James

Did he take the pics?

James

nope, i took the pics.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cutty72

As long as those "others" aren't people that you or him deal with on a daily basis I don't see real problems with it.
Now if the pics were going to your coworkers or his friends etc, then I could see his hesitation.

it's nobody that he knows or sees.

Apoc · 01-17-2010, 10:36 AM

send me the pics, and I will decide...

neebelung · 01-17-2010, 10:55 AM

Porn is anonymous. Therefore there's no personal feelings involved - it's purely for gratification on a carnal level, free of emotion. If you know the people in the pics on some level, then it removes that anonymity and takes it to a more personal level, which kinda crosses a line.

Tmall · 01-17-2010, 11:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

Obviously those pictures are of single women, or of women who's husband's do not care..

I don't see that as a double standard at all.

01-17-2010, 10:36 AM	#8
Apoc For Science. You Monster. Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Canada Moto: '08 HD FLSTSB Posts: 3,546	send me the pics, and I will decide... __________________ Android OS causes gay. Dont let your child use Android (unless she's a hot female). And dont let your babies grow up to be cowboys, either.

01-17-2010, 09:38 AM	#3
Tmall Aspiring Rapper Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Halifax, NS Moto: '12 CB1000R Posts: 3,569	I can't believe nobody has asked.. Pics?

01-17-2010, 10:55 AM	#9
neebelung Ornery, scandalous & evil Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Jacksonville, FL Moto: 2004 Scarlet R1 Posts: 5,962	Porn is anonymous. Therefore there's no personal feelings involved - it's purely for gratification on a carnal level, free of emotion. If you know the people in the pics on some level, then it removes that anonymity and takes it to a more personal level, which kinda crosses a line.