I may be getting rid of a longtime friend - Page 3

Mr Lefty · 10-26-2009, 11:41 AM

Captain... I hate to break it to ya... but you're not gonna get rid of a friend... just aint gonna happen...

not unless you actually have someone else you're cutting out of your life... cause this guy is no friend. he's a leach... get him out of your life and more importantly your daughters... and move on.

I've had to do this to a couple "friends" and it's not easy... but I'm blessed in the fact that being in the military I move... and don't see them except when I go home (if I choose to)... haven't seen either of them in 6 years... no desire to. they were every bit as shitty a friend as your guy... but lacking the bitch of a wife.

good luck bro... life is way to short to waste time with useless souls.

z06boy · 10-26-2009, 11:54 AM

The guy sounds like a loser and a leach and his wife sounds like a b!tch and I'd have no use for either. I understand the friendship thing and it being tough to cut ties but from what you've posted...BAM...do it.

Any pics of his wife ?

Particle Man · 10-26-2009, 12:02 PM

Sounds like you know what to do...

RACER X · 10-26-2009, 12:03 PM

well, i've had a similar sit. my buddy wasn't as bad as your guy, but nonetheless. we've been friends for 25+ yrs.

ya'll share alot of history so it's hard IMO to just drop it.

rather then just entirely drop him, just distance yourself from him. stay outta the drama. who knows, maybe he'll turn himself around, maybe not.

CrazyKell · 10-26-2009, 12:54 PM

The only people who I consider "friends" in my life are those that I find are good, upstanding people.

Cheats on his wife? NO.

Uses you as an alibi? No way in HELL!

I just skimmed after that because there's no way I'd be friends with someone that did that (with me knowing about it). Sounds like a douche.

We can have many acquaintances but few we call true friends.

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10-26-2009, 11:41 AM	#21
Mr Lefty TWFix Legend Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Denver CO Moto: 01 BMW F650GS Dakar Posts: 15,677	Captain... I hate to break it to ya... but you're not gonna get rid of a friend... just aint gonna happen... not unless you actually have someone else you're cutting out of your life... cause this guy is no friend. he's a leach... get him out of your life and more importantly your daughters... and move on. I've had to do this to a couple "friends" and it's not easy... but I'm blessed in the fact that being in the military I move... and don't see them except when I go home (if I choose to)... haven't seen either of them in 6 years... no desire to. they were every bit as shitty a friend as your guy... but lacking the bitch of a wife. good luck bro... life is way to short to waste time with useless souls.

10-26-2009, 11:54 AM	#22
z06boy Letzroll Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Lake Norman area, NC Moto: 07 Red R1 & 07 Blue R6 Posts: 5,265	The guy sounds like a loser and a leach and his wife sounds like a b!tch and I'd have no use for either. I understand the friendship thing and it being tough to cut ties but from what you've posted...BAM...do it. Any pics of his wife ?

10-26-2009, 12:54 PM	#25
CrazyKell Vrooom Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: 06 ZX6R Posts: 4,427	The only people who I consider "friends" in my life are those that I find are good, upstanding people. Cheats on his wife? NO. Uses you as an alibi? No way in HELL! I just skimmed after that because there's no way I'd be friends with someone that did that (with me knowing about it). Sounds like a douche. We can have many acquaintances but few we call true friends.