is pr0n still innocent if...

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Amorok

I probably consume moreporn than any two people on this forum. I don't know if I'm an expert but I do have an informed opinion. That being said, porn is awesome because it's meaningless fantasy. Video games are cool in the same way, it's fun to spend a couple of hours engaging in a fantasy, but actually running around with chain swords killing Hydras would be totally different. Likewise, it's fun to vent a little mental steam watching porn because I know none of it is real. Those girls don't walk around looking like that and I imagine sex with them wouldn't be like that either. Being able to fantasize is cool because it let's me mentally explore things I'm not able to in real life, but seeing pictures and video of someone I know would change things. Now this is someone from my real life suddenly in my fantasy life. The whole point of porn for me is to keep those two worlds seperate, and having them meet like that is not healthy. Now I'm fantasizing about someone in my real life, bondaries are being crossed in my mind and I'm moving closer to an innappropriate event. In my real life if only in that the possibility becomes more defined in my own mind. While I might idly fantasize about women I see or meet, seeing them featured in porn would become disturbingly real, so I think seeing porn with someone I know is innappropriate.

As for my wife sharing pictures with someone else, that's a no go. Her nudity is only for me, as is mine for her. There are certain situations as adults where utilitarian coed nudity may happen, but that's far and away a different thing than sultry underwear shots, and that's not allowed. The rule of thumb is that anything you wouldn't do in front of someone in person is not something you can share pictures of unless your significant other approves.

Sorry for being the voice of reason.

Does your wife approve of your pr0n habit?

[Tmall]

Originally Posted by Amorok

I probably consume moreporn than any two people on this forum. I don't know if I'm an expert but I do have an informed opinion. That being said, porn is awesome because it's meaningless fantasy. Video games are cool in the same way, it's fun to spend a couple of hours engaging in a fantasy, but actually running around with chain swords killing Hydras would be totally different. Likewise, it's fun to vent a little mental steam watching porn because I know none of it is real. Those girls don't walk around looking like that and I imagine sex with them wouldn't be like that either. Being able to fantasize is cool because it let's me mentally explore things I'm not able to in real life, but seeing pictures and video of someone I know would change things. Now this is someone from my real life suddenly in my fantasy life. The whole point of porn for me is to keep those two worlds seperate, and having them meet like that is not healthy. Now I'm fantasizing about someone in my real life, bondaries are being crossed in my mind and I'm moving closer to an innappropriate event. In my real life if only in that the possibility becomes more defined in my own mind. While I might idly fantasize about women I see or meet, seeing them featured in porn would become disturbingly real, so I think seeing porn with someone I know is innappropriate.

As for my wife sharing pictures with someone else, that's a no go. Her nudity is only for me, as is mine for her. There are certain situations as adults where utilitarian coed nudity may happen, but that's far and away a different thing than sultry underwear shots, and that's not allowed. The rule of thumb is that anything you wouldn't do in front of someone in person is not something you can share pictures of unless your significant other approves.

Sorry for being the voice of reason.

I think there are only 2-3 that disagree with you.

[Tmall]

Originally Posted by Trip

Does your wife approve of your pr0n habit?

Look at porn while your wife is away. Then take her with you while you hand deliver polaroids of your boner to your neghbours. Lemme know which one works out for ya.

[karl_1052]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

There's tons of porn where a girl will suck a guy's dick after it's been in another girl's ass and that is considered "HOT" but if a guy kisses a girl after her mouth was on another guys dick for .01 of a second that's "YUCK"...weird...

Wrong. both are gross.

[derf]

Originally Posted by Tmall

I think there are only 2-3 that disagree with you.

Seriously. That chain sword killing hydra thing sounds fun

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by Captain Morgan

I think we have a winner right here. From things I've read from Kim in the past and this current info, I'd be willing to bet she simply doesn't get the attention and the help at home that she wants. I'm guessing hubby doesn't help with the kids or the chores anywhere near as much as she wants. And this is how she's expressing her displeasure. She senses that he doesn't care, so she's acting out to get attention. Not sure if she's tried talking to him or not, but I know taking the actions she's taking isn't the solution. And when I say talking, I mean actual talking, not telling him what to do, or getting angry and yelling, but having an actual conversation that results in some compromise between them.

captain...this is dead on!! and for what it's worth, hubby doesn't communicate well. i talk, he doesn't listen. ever.

[Avatard]

Show your tits on the internet less, and in his face more, he will listen more attentively, I promise.

[Captain Morgan]

Originally Posted by Avatard

Show your tits on the internet less, and in his face more, he will listen more attentively, I promise.

No, then the blood will rush out of his brain. But seriously, just walk in the living room later tonight wearing something skimpy and sit on his lap, facing him. Show some affection, and maybe you'll get some in return. Or, maybe he'll be a douche and tell you he's not in the mood.

[smileyman]

Complicated. Is it your attention he wants? is it his attention you want?

[Apoc]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

WOW!!! I want the record to show that I wasn't the one who said it! I promised her that I'd leave him alone. Oh and yep that is correct sir!

How dare a man be a man!

Theres a time for flowers, sure. But theres also a time to tell the bitch to stop being a bitch!