VAB's Update - Page 4

vabarber2 · 04-10-2008, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cutty72

And THAT is why I refuse to get married before I get activated. I'd rather wait till I get back. Not because I am afraid I may harm myself, but just cause it's easier to sort everything out if shit does go south.

Hope your bud is back tip top quick.

Damn right, and my SO was mad that I took that position in thayt debate! I'd never get married right before having to say by for a year, to many intangables.

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Originally Posted by itgirl

so sad. no woman is worth hurting yourself over.

Damn right!

comonboys · 04-17-2008, 02:24 PM

[QUOTE=vabarber2;30434]Damn right, and my SO was mad that I took that position in thayt debate! I'd never get married right before having to say by for a year, to many intangables.

I wouldn't say I was pissed. Just didn't understand at first. Still don't understand why we just can't get engaged. If he can't trust me enough to be here by myself and NOT do anything stupid.... Well, then we don't have trust in the relationship and it won't work then anyway....... I think i have proven myself that he can trust me to be here waiting with a newly repainted house.... LOL........ Just kidding dear!!!!!!!!!!! or am I............ (on the painting that is, serious on everything else.)

vabarber2 · 04-17-2008, 08:54 PM

Its not about trust, a deployment puts great strain and stress on both members of a relationship, then they end up pouring it onto eachother or holding it in and its all about how well you can take that. So to put souch a title on the line then go away and strain it isn't the smartest idea. Though a deployment is a great test to see if it's true love and should be done upon return!

Cutty72 · 04-20-2008, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by vabarber2

Its not about trust, a deployment puts great strain and stress on both members of a relationship, then they end up pouring it onto eachother or holding it in and its all about how well you can take that. So to put souch a title on the line then go away and strain it isn't the smartest idea. Though a deployment is a great test to see if it's true love and should be done upon return!

thanks vabs.

and a some odd thousand dollar ring would be on the line, and wasted if problems were to arise.

04-17-2008, 08:54 PM	#33
vabarber2 ICON FTW!!! Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: VA, but currently in the sand Moto: 00GSXR6 Posts: 1,380	Its not about trust, a deployment puts great strain and stress on both members of a relationship, then they end up pouring it onto eachother or holding it in and its all about how well you can take that. So to put souch a title on the line then go away and strain it isn't the smartest idea. Though a deployment is a great test to see if it's true love and should be done upon return! __________________ HOME!!!

04-17-2008, 02:24 PM	#32
comonboys Ridin Naked. HMMMMM...... Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Davenport, ND Moto: 650 SV Posts: 461	[QUOTE=vabarber2;30434]Damn right, and my SO was mad that I took that position in thayt debate! I'd never get married right before having to say by for a year, to many intangables. I wouldn't say I was pissed. Just didn't understand at first. Still don't understand why we just can't get engaged. If he can't trust me enough to be here by myself and NOT do anything stupid.... Well, then we don't have trust in the relationship and it won't work then anyway....... I think i have proven myself that he can trust me to be here waiting with a newly repainted house.... LOL........ Just kidding dear!!!!!!!!!!! or am I............ (on the painting that is, serious on everything else.)