is pr0n still innocent if...

[Kaneman]

Originally Posted by itgirl

ok. whatever. you win. pigeonhole me if you like. you don't know me. there is more to marriage than sex. has been for 12 years. just recently changed for me.

Don't get all butt-hurt, its a legitimate conversation, Jesus. Of course there is more to a marriage than sex...but that is a significant part of it.

So is it just your husband that can't please you or has a man never given you the big O?

[smileyman]

May not be a sexual need at all Kaneman, but a different need being expressed sexually.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by azoomm

Tigger, Dr. Phil would imply there is something to fix. I think it's beyond fixing - or that one or both don't want to fix it. Unhappy? That's up to you to decide.

It all comes down to what you can live with.

True, I was just poking fun at a couple of the more sensitive guys on this board...

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Kaneman

Don't get all butt-hurt, its a legitimate conversation, Jesus. Of course there is more to a marriage than sex...but that is a significant part of it.

So is it just your husband that can't please you or has a man never given you the big O?

I'd be more than happy to volunteer as a test subject, in the interest of science of course.

[Apoc]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

True, I was just poking fun at a couple of the more sensitive guys on this board...

You mean the one who`s just now finding out that being a sweet, sensitive, pussy bitch doesnt keep your woman home with you?

[derf]

Originally Posted by itgirl

there is more to marriage than sex.

Please explain this more than sex thing? I don't understand it.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by Apoc

You mean the one who`s just now finding out that being a sweet, sensitive, pussy bitch doesnt keep your woman home with you?

Probably.

But, I could have told you that. My husband has moments where he's sweet - like when I bought flowers for myself yesterday with some money I found in dryer that probably came out of his pocket I walked in and said "Thank you for the beautiful flowers!"

OK, so I went there to buy beer... then happened to buy the flowers

[Captain Morgan]

Originally Posted by smileyman

May not be a sexual need at all Kaneman, but a different need being expressed sexually.

I think we have a winner right here. From things I've read from Kim in the past and this current info, I'd be willing to bet she simply doesn't get the attention and the help at home that she wants. I'm guessing hubby doesn't help with the kids or the chores anywhere near as much as she wants. And this is how she's expressing her displeasure. She senses that he doesn't care, so she's acting out to get attention. Not sure if she's tried talking to him or not, but I know taking the actions she's taking isn't the solution. And when I say talking, I mean actual talking, not telling him what to do, or getting angry and yelling, but having an actual conversation that results in some compromise between them.

[Kaneman]

Originally Posted by azoomm

OK, so I went there to buy beer... then happened to buy the flowers

And THAT'S why your marriage works!

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Apoc

You mean the one who`s just now finding out that being a sweet, sensitive, pussy bitch doesnt keep your woman home with you?

WOW!!! I want the record to show that I wasn't the one who said it! I promised her that I'd leave him alone. Oh and yep that is correct sir!