I am doomed

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Amber Lamps

Oh yea, well at least me and my gf have a strong enough relationship to be able to take care of a dog together, that's more than what you can say!

Yey, old tigger is back.

I agree secret vasectomy was a great idea in your case. You don't want kids or want to get married. These guys may eventually want kids and are committed to their women. It's not a great idea for them. Not everyone is following the same path as you or we would be fucked as a species.

[marko138]

Originally Posted by Amber Lamps

Yea when your first child pricks her finger on a loom and falls into a deep sleeP, you'll know why! Good luck finding a Prince punk!!!

You'll be the first guy I call, stud.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by marko138

You'll be the first guy I call, stud.

You got to wonder what the girl he is dating father thinks of him.

[marko138]

Originally Posted by Trip

You got to wonder what the girl he is dating father thinks of him.

Good point.

[CrazyKell]

Originally Posted by Rider

Exactly. If you aren't going to have kids, why get married? Marriage is just a financial arrangement.

What's the point of getting married even if you have kids?

[Trip]

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

What's the point of getting married even if you have kids?

money - marriage is a financial institution no matter how much bitching and moaning religion tries to say about it

['73 H1 Triple]

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

What's the point of getting married even if you have kids?

Originally Posted by Trip

money - marriage is a financial institution no matter how much bitching and moaning religion tries to say about it

I must be one stupid son of a bitch.

I married my wife because I actually love her and enjoy being with her. July we'll be married 11 years and have been together since '92.

Neither of us have kids ( we were both married previously). I don't think we'll be having any either, I turned 50 this past saturday and she's 52.

Jeff

[Trip]

Originally Posted by '73 H1 Triple

I must be one stupid son of a bitch.

I married my wife because I actually love her and enjoy being with her. July we'll be married 11 years and have been together since '92.

Neither of us have kids ( we were both married previously). I don't think we'll be having any either, I turned 50 this past saturday and she's 52.

Jeff

you can love someone and not be married. Marriage was created and is used as a way to legally merge your finances and assets (along with debt as well). You can also pass on benefits to your spouse as w ell.

[MILK]

Originally Posted by tommymac

I get that from her family you guys arent married blah blah blah yet her names on the mortgage that I am paying 90% of anyway.


The funny thing is her sis in law wont let her kids call me uncle tommy since were not married. Works for me I dont have to buy em anything for family events

Blah blah blah, that works in reverse. I am paying the mortage on our house until it sells and I don't live there, he does. Not all women are blood sucking leeches, some of us make more than most of the men we know. He refused to move out (no job ) and I had to get away from the son of a bitch. Paying the mortage is such a small price to be away from him.

[tommymac]

Originally Posted by MILK

Blah blah blah, that works in reverse. I am paying the mortage on our house until it sells and I don't live there, he does. Not all women are blood sucking leeches, some of us make more than most of the men we know. He refused to move out (no job ) and I had to get away from the son of a bitch. Paying the mortage is such a small price to be away from him.

She def isnt of the leech category. She did help an dsupport me while I was in school and was one of the few who stood behind me while trying to get in to school, so shes also reaping the benefits of all the work I put into it but was there through the lean times also.

I figure we have fun together and can still do our own things and def isnt a headcase like some of the others I dated in the past and is fine with me pursuing my intrests.