is pr0n still innocent if...

[itgirl]

...you kinda know the person in the pics you are viewing? perhaps not personally, but maybe via internet forum/friendly acquaintance or such? just curious where one draws the line. one person's playmate is another person's wife/sister/mother...etc.

[Cutty72]

Sure why not?
I'd say as long as it's not like your best friends gf/wife or something.

[Tmall]

I can't believe nobody has asked.. Pics?

[itgirl]

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

[Flexin]

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong?

Yes it is. Double-standards are wrong. Showing the pics will correct this.

James

Did he take the pics?

James

[Cutty72]

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

As long as those "others" aren't people that you or him deal with on a daily basis I don't see real problems with it.
Now if the pics were going to your coworkers or his friends etc, then I could see his hesitation.

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by Flexin

Yes it is. Double-standards are wrong. Showing the pics will correct this.

James

Did he take the pics?

James

nope, i took the pics.

Originally Posted by Cutty72

As long as those "others" aren't people that you or him deal with on a daily basis I don't see real problems with it.
Now if the pics were going to your coworkers or his friends etc, then I could see his hesitation.

it's nobody that he knows or sees.

[Tmall]

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

Obviously those pictures are of single women, or of women who's husband's do not care..


I don't see that as a double standard at all.

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by Tmall

Obviously those pictures are of single women, or of women who's husband's do not care..


I don't see that as a double standard at all.

I agree.

Now I'm assuming you mean he's viewing pics of people he doesn't know, and NOT let's say the next door neighbor, or your kid's teacher. THAT would be a double standard, IMO, because the anonymity is removed.

[Tmall]

Originally Posted by neebelung

I agree.

Now I'm assuming you mean he's viewing pics of people he doesn't know, and NOT let's say the next door neighbor, or your kid's teacher. THAT would be a double standard, IMO, because the anonymity is removed.

I agree with this as well to an extent. If I happen to get pics of my hot neighbour through email(say leaked by a bf), I'll "use" em and likely show my gf. If my hot neighbour directly sends me pics? I'm in deep trouble and should probably hide the knives..