Younger, smarter wife equals happier marriage.

EpyonXero · 10-26-2009, 12:40 PM

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8325579.stm

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'Younger wife' for marital bliss
The secret to a happy marriage for men is choosing a wife who is smarter and at least five years younger than you, say UK experts.

These pairings are more likely to go the distance, particularly if neither has been divorced in the past, according to the Bath University team.

The findings predict a happy future for pop star Beyonce Knowles, 28, and rapper husband Jay-Z, 39.

The work is published in the European Journal of Operational Research.

The researchers studied interviews of more than 1,500 couples who were married or in a serious relationship.

Five years later, they followed up 1,000 of the couples to see which had lasted.

For better or worse

They found that if the wife was five or more years older than her husband, they were more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age. HAVE YOUR SAY Not so long ago the husband had to be older than his wife in order to be able to support a family, but such criteria are not so relevant now women have been educated to be able to command good jobs, so I suggest the basis for a successful marriage should be tolerance Marion Monahan, Bristol

If the age gap is reversed, and the man is older than the woman, the odds of marital bliss are higher.

Add in a better education for the woman - Beyonce has her high school diploma, unlike husband Jay-Z - and the chances of lasting happiness improve further.

Those who have never divorced fare better too. But couples in which one member has been through a divorce in the past are less stable than those in which both members are divorcees.

Dr Emmanuel Fragniere and colleagues do say that men and women choose partners "on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of taste, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values."

But they say that using "objective factors" such as age, education and cultural origin "may help reduce divorce".

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Published: 2009/10/26 10:09:07 GMT

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RACER X · 10-26-2009, 12:41 PM

mine's 14yr younger......lol

and arguably smarter.......kekeke

and workin on her masters........FTW!

CasterTroy · 10-26-2009, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by RACER X

and arguably smarter

Fail! .....she married you

Rider · 10-26-2009, 12:45 PM

wife = same age
Her smarter? No, but she thinks so.
So I'd say the finding is accurate.

karl_1052 · 10-26-2009, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by RACER X

mine's 14yr younger......lol

and arguably smarter.......kekeke

and workin on her masters........FTW!

arguably smarter?

Homeslice · 10-26-2009, 12:45 PM

Pretty common sense.......If he doesn't marry a younger woman, he'll be more likely to lust after other women. Also most men aren't as mature for the same age anyway.

Dave · 10-26-2009, 01:06 PM

smarter would be difficult. More common sense maybe

z06boy · 10-26-2009, 01:11 PM

Mine is 10 years younger and yes...smarter in some ways but I've got her covered in other ways so we're a good team.

TYEster · 10-26-2009, 07:28 PM

Hmmm...

We're not married, but she's actually 8 years older. Call me crazy, but I've never been happier.

Dave · 10-26-2009, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by TYEster

Hmmm...

We're not married, but she's actually 8 years older. Call me crazy, but I've never been happier.

she must be the man in the relationship, watch your cornhole!

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10-26-2009, 12:45 PM	#4
Rider Moto GP Star Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 12,156	wife = same age Her smarter? No, but she thinks so. So I'd say the finding is accurate.

10-26-2009, 12:45 PM	#6
Homeslice Elitist Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: SF Bay Area Moto: Gix 750 Posts: 11,351	Pretty common sense.......If he doesn't marry a younger woman, he'll be more likely to lust after other women. Also most men aren't as mature for the same age anyway.

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Dave Chaotic Neutral Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Cherry Hill NJ Moto: GV1200 Madura, Hawk gt Posts: 13,992	smarter would be difficult. More common sense maybe

10-26-2009, 01:11 PM	#8
z06boy Letzroll Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Lake Norman area, NC Moto: 07 Red R1 & 07 Blue R6 Posts: 5,265	Mine is 10 years younger and yes...smarter in some ways but I've got her covered in other ways so we're a good team.

10-26-2009, 07:28 PM	#9
TYEster With MORE TYEstosterone Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: TX Moto: '12 KX450F / 08 YZ250F #512 / 07 KX65 #1 Posts: 1,429	Hmmm... We're not married, but she's actually 8 years older. Call me crazy, but I've never been happier.